I’ve been sexually harassed, and I don’t know one woman who hasn’t been. After a brief conversation with a close male friend, he didn’t even realize that certain behaviors can be deemed as crossing the line. So why is it that ‘no means yes?’ Or ‘no means I do want you to keep going?’ Or ‘no means after 30 minutes of you making me uncomfortable I’ll finally just give in?’
Some men seem to think that after an intense battle for the panties the reward is greater…I can’t necessarily say (last I checked I am NOT a man) but it’s crazy that we live in a society where rape culture is acceptable. We’ve elected a man who grabs women by the pussy, we glorify infidelity (typically when it’s done by a man) and we celebrate music that oversexualizes women and makes the youth desensitized to the level of disrespect we endure.
Let me say this: no means no! If she wants you, you’ll know. It doesn’t matter what she wears, how enebriated she is, if you had sex with her BEFORE, nothing matters if a woman tells you no.