Being a single woman in this day in age has multiple struggles. Being a single mom in this day in age has multiple struggles. It’s levels to these struggles. Being a single mom while working on your career, your body, credit score, and perfectly gelled baby hair is a struggle. And that is just the beginning of the struggle. So how HOW am I supposed to find my Boaz in the midst of all these struggles?
Two things happen…
- He has NO struggle, therefore, he believes my struggle is not REAL.
2. I ruin it…and deem him unfit.
What am I supposed to do…
As we approach *sigh* our 30’s, has the “friends with benefits” boat sailed off into the sunset? Dare I ask the question:
To Thot, or Not?
This is a much deeper issue than spreading your legs or casual sex. Is casual sex getting in the way of finding real commitment? And there’s also this:
“For every 100 unmarried women there are 88 unmarried men.”-U.S. Census Bureau. (America’s Families and Living Arrangements: 2010).
Single ladies, it’s tough for us already, even tougher when some of us are vying for the same guy. In some instances a person who recently escaped from the restraints of a relationship might not want to be a habitual boyfriend hopper, but enjoy the companionship of a male. Does she have to choose relationship or no sex? Honestly, when there isn’t much to choose from, why be forced to settle for a relationship? However, there is a flip side.
Others would say that this mentality is what led to the influx of casual sex in the first place, which eventually destroyed what we refer to as the sanctity of marriage. Which came first?
So what do you think? Friend’s with benefits a waste of time? Or one night stands? Leave me your opinions or thoughts in the comments below.